TAKE ACTION
Action Looks Different for Everyone
Taking action does not always mean leaving, reporting, or confronting harm. In many situations, the safest and most effective action is small, quiet, or internal.
Action is about reclaiming choice — not meeting expectations.
If You Are Experiencing Abuse
You are not required to:
Be ready
Be certain
Be strong
Act quickly
.
Possible actions might include:
Talking to one trusted person
Gathering information
Seeking confidential support
Taking steps to protect your wellbeing
Doing nothing for now, if that is safest
.
You are allowed to move at your own pace.
If You Are Supporting Someone Else
If someone has trusted you with their experience:
Listen without judgment or pressure
Believe what they tell you
Avoid giving ultimatums or timelines
Ask what they need, rather than assuming
Respect their choices, even when they’re hard to understand
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Being present can be more powerful than trying to fix things.
If You Are Part of a Community or Organisation
Abuse often continues because environments tolerate silence or minimise harm.
You can take action by:
Challenging harmful narratives or jokes
Creating safer spaces for disclosure
Refusing to excuse abuse as stress, culture, or belief
Supporting policies that prioritise safety and dignity
Learning how coercive control operates
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Small cultural shifts can reduce harm.
If You Want to Advocate or Contribute
Some people choose to take action through:
Volunteering time or skills
Supporting survivor-led organisations
Donating to community services
Sharing accurate information responsibly
Advocating for better systems and responses
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Advocacy should centre survivor safety, not visibility.
Action Without Risk
Not all action needs to be public.
Not all action needs to be visible.
Not all action needs to be immediate.
Safety comes first.
How HKSG Can Support Action
HKSG can:
Help you think through options
Offer perspective without pressure
Connect you with appropriate resources
Support action that aligns with your safety and values
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We will not push you toward decisions you’re not ready to make.
Support Now
If you are in immediate danger, call 000.
For confidential support in Australia 1800RESPECT — 1800 737 732 (24/7)
Get in Touch
If you’d like to talk, ask a question, or learn about support: contact@hksgroup.org
For urgent help: 000 (emergency in Australia) 1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732
